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   It is never too soon to begin talking with your children about drugs, alcohol and tobacco. Some national studies show that the average age when a child first tries alcohol is 11; for marijuana, it's 12. And many kids start becoming curious about these substances even sooner. One way to help our children handle peer pressure when they are alone is to help them to handle making responsible choices when they are younger. Allowing them room to become confident decision-makers is a place to start. For example, an 8-year-old is capable of deciding if she wants to invite lots of friends to her birthday party or just a close pal or two. A 12-year-old can choose whether she wants to go out for chorus or join the school band. As your child becomes more skilled at making all kinds of good choices, both you and she will feel more secure in her ability to make the right decision concerning alcohol and drugs if and when the time arrives. If you use alcohol or smoke, be prepared for a challenge from your child. Don't get mad. Simply explain the difference between an adult responsibly using alcohol versus abusing alcohol. Your kids may not want to hear it, but there are some things they don't get to do until they're older. Want to learn about what to talk about when? Click here for some tips on talking to your kindergartener, elementary school-age child, and middle school student. |
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